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Confusion over Censori’s company grew final week, when stories got here out that Censori was divorcing Ye over the Grammys controversy and his on-line antisemitic rants.
The rapper’s spokesperson, Milo Yiannopoulos ― sure, that Milo Yiannopoulos ― denied such stories.
It’s value noting, Censori wore barely there, avant-garde physique stocking outfits earlier than she met Ye. Dames nonetheless thinks that was totally different from now.
“That was a time when she was much less well-known,” she stated. “The best way she dressed and the issues she loved had been, presumably, not anticipated to be seen and reported on by tens of millions of individuals. I undoubtedly suppose it is a ploy by Kanye to get consideration by any means essential.”
Evie Lupine, a kink educator, stated she additionally worries that West is dictating the phrases of the connection to Censori fairly than creating them together with her.
“If he doesn’t see her as an equal particular person with company from the beginning, that may be a purple flag for emotional abuse,” she stated. “The largest inform, although, is that if Censori is free to go away the connection at any time with out fearing for her security. In different phrases, can she not solely give her consent, however revoke it?”
If somebody can’t depart a D/s relationship, isn’t allowed to say no, or is in any other case coerced at some stage, that’s clearly not a wholesome or consensual kink association, Lupine instructed HuffPost.
We don’t know the way Ye could also be performing on this relationship, however now we have ample proof of how he acted throughout earlier breakups, Lupine stated.
“When he was breaking apart with Julia Fox, he showered his ex Kim Kardashian with a literal truck filled with roses,” she stated. “He made a music video wherein he decapitated Pete Davidson when Kim and Pete had been briefly collectively.”
“He’s additionally been accused of sexually assaulting a number of ladies, together with a mannequin and a private assistant,” she added. “To me, this isn’t somebody who leaves the impression he’s a secure particular person to say no to, or somebody who will allow you to depart simply.”
The consultants we spoke to balked at the concept most people could also be drawing conclusions in regards to the kink neighborhood based mostly on West and Censori, particularly given the couple’s shoddy therapy of bystander consent.
“They aren’t good representatives of our requirements at any stage, however naturally essentially the most excessive examples at all times get media consideration,” Lupine stated. “The intercourse employee strolling a person on a leash in an Erewhon makes headlines, as an illustration.”
Nobody writes tales in regards to the a whole bunch of hundreds of {couples} who’re partaking in BDSM within the privateness of their houses or in undetectable methods in public ― texting a associate orders whereas they’re out in public or controlling a long-distance wearable vibrator ― as a result of nobody notices, Lupine stated.
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